Red Pill Women: My Thoughts & Three Essential Traits

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Blogging is tough.

I am new to blogging, and my goal was to blog 2-3 times a week. But when you are writing really structured, photo-heavy blogs (travel guides, fashion analysis, etc), it is time consuming and hard to keep up. So, I took a bit of a breather.

But I’m back!

I wanted to write a blog about what’s running through my head lately. Probably my biggest current point of interest has to do with Red Pill Theory.

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Oh my God, did she just say that?!

It feels like I have to give a disclaimer. Generally, Red Pill is unpopular, especially with women. The ESSENTIAL THING TO KNOW is that Red Pill Women is a bit of a different beast from The Red Pill. I don’t think there’s enough awareness of that.

So what are Red Pill Women?

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Long Distance Relationship Advice: 5 Tips to Make It Work

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Yesterday was the anniversary of my first time meeting my long-distance relationship boyfriend.

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Since then, there have been many transatlantic flights, nine months spent together in England, thousands of hours on Skype, and one big decision:

We’re getting married.

I hadn’t really planned on announcing it yet – mainly because he hasn’t officially proposed. As with many long-distance relationships, the decision to get married happens a little differently. We weren’t together when we decided – we were on different continents. We’ve been talking about marriage for a long time, but we didn’t know when. I guess we can thank UK Visas and Immigration for answering that question for us. Because it’s so difficult to secure the unmarried partner visa, marriage is our best option. Besides, we knew it was coming eventually – and when you know, you know.

Still waiting for that ring, though… 💍😉

Being the anniversary of when we first met, I’m reflecting a lot on our relationship. Since we’re made it this far successfully, I want to share five tips that have helped us get here. Some of these are specific to LDRs, but some apply to all relationships!

1. Visit often
2. Communicate constantly
3. Don’t play games
4. Be honest
5. Talk about goals / plans

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Five Things I Wish I Knew: When I Started Selling Clothes Online

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How much is your time + freedom worth to you?
And how can a little success be your worst enemy? Read on to find out.

I am what has become known as a ‘#girlboss’. A ‘#bossbabe’. I prefer entrepreneur.

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At an early point in my adult life, I realised that working for other people was simply not going to be for me. It was ten years ago that I pulled out my laptop and started searching: How to work from home. How to be self-employed. Ideas to make money on the internet. There were a few leads I chased up – but reading about one particular site, which was only a few years old, would change my life forever. That site was Etsy.

Apparently, people were selling jewellery, and art, and anything else they had made, on this site. But that wasn’t all. They were also selling antiques & vintage clothing. I had always considered myself an old soul – with a deep appreciation for 60s music, black and white films, and – lucky me – secondhand clothing. I first started buying and wearing vintage when I was only 15, and I hadn’t looked back since.

After a bit of research, I launched my own Etsy shop in 2008 (it has since been reopened as a UK Shop & USA Shop). Though I saw a little success in my sales, it wasn’t until years went by – years of experimenting, learning, losing hope and getting a “real” job again,  then quitting that “real” job, experimenting some more, and finally – meeting my brilliant and business-savvy boyfriend & partner – that I began to see the income I’ve always wanted (currently grossing an average of over £400 // $550 weekly). And – even better – sales are still steadily improving.

So, if I could go back ten years – what would I tell my younger self?

 

 

Some of my Etsy shop photos, Year One

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Hythe, Kent: A Visitor’s Guide

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View of Hythe Beach from my flat

On my last stay in England, I lived mostly in the seaside town of Hythe. Hythe is a small town on the English Channel, in County Kent – “The Garden of England.” It’s a sleepy, beautiful place very near the Channel Tunnel, which joins England to France. On clear days, I could see the French coast, and I remember watching the fireworks across the sea on Bastille Day.

Stationed on the Southern shore – the first line of defence against invasion – Hythe has an ancient and rich military history. Now, it’s a residential haven near the larger port towns of Folkestone and Dover. But sometimes, it’s the small towns which hide the most often missed gems. Hythe is very sunny and temperate compared to much of England, and makes a lovely summer holiday spot – plus, it’s the gateway to France and the rest of Europe!

I wanted to share a few places that you shouldn’t pass by if you are able to visit Hythe.

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The 7 Vintage Pieces You Need in 2018

Let’s talk vintage fashion for 2018, and how to make it modern and appropriate. 

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Hello all, and welcome to my blog. I’ve decided to jump right in with the good stuff, but you can check out a little bit about me here.

As a long-time vintage wearer and vintage boutique owner, I have seen my own taste in vintage evolve with time. What worked for me ten – or even five – years ago, doesn’t work for me now.

Yet, alas! Try to browse the web for updated, fresh vintage fashion inspiration, and many of the results are either too costumey, or simply not appropriate to our modern sophisticated and minimalist tastes. What’s the solution?

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